Look guys. We love you. We want you and some of us even want to end up with you. But, I have to break it to you: You are so stupid sometimes. We know that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, but maybe you could try to learn what women want? Maybe just try? Here are some mistakes that men make over and over again.
Women love little gifts, so I am not telling you not to buy her flowers. I am not telling you to never ever buy her a present again. What I am telling you is to not try to buy her love. If you shower her with gifts and that is the only thing you are really offering, it is fine for now but it isn't going to end up working out in the long run. She will end up expecting more gifts and you will end up broke.
You either click or you don't. If you keep trying to impress her or keep showering her with praise, it is going to come off desperate and sad. You will know if she likes you for you, so stop trying so hard. If you are exhausted, that means that it probably isn't meant to be.
She doesn't want to know all about your ex and what went wrong from day one. Let her get to know you and learn little by little what is wrong with you. If you tell her that you have commitment issues and live a life of regret from day one, she is going to run for the hills. Actually, maybe you should tell her so she can get out ASAP!
You want to go talk to her, but you just don't have the balls to do it. Well, guess what? She may really want to talk to you too but she wants you to make the first move. Women want to be courted, so don't miss an opportunity because you are scared.
If you are too nice, she is going to walk all over you. Take care of her, but take care of yourself too. Don't just say yes because she wants to hear it. It takes too to tango and you need to be happy in this relationship too. It has to be fair.
If you set it up that you just want to be her buddy, good luck to you. It is almost impossible to get out of the friend zone. Let me tell you what is going on on the other end. You befriend her and she spends the next few weeks wondering what you want from her. Then you never make a move and she assumes that you want to just be friends. She gives up and moves on. You blew it. Done. Make it known from day one what you are looking for! Own that ish!
She doesn't need to look into your eyes and swoon every time you guys have sex. I know you are trying to make her happy, but women like to have some fun in the sack too. Stop being so lovey dovey and get to it.
You don't want to seem too available or too needy, so you play it cool. Then you are never available enough and she thinks that you aren't interested. You have no idea how much women over-analyze everything. If you are into her, just be yourself and stop playing games. We are too old for it.
When we are out at a bar with our girlfriends, sometimes we want to check out guys and sometimes we are just out for a girl's night. Don't just assume that we are there to hook up. Come in, test the waters and see where we are at before you just dive in. You may think that you are the coolest guy in the world, but if you are being annoying and pushy, it's never going to happen.
Please try to pick up what we are putting down. If you just listen and look for clues, you will know if we want to kiss you. You will know if we aren't interested, or if you are in the friend zone. Don't make it awkward for everyone by just doing what you want without really thinking it through.